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Norma Jean (What I normally call her) said a lot of things in very long comment. I deleted the comment just because I could. She can say what she wants to about it, but I wanted her to know that here, I have control over what gets said. All of the quotes are direct though, nothing patched together, I just separated out lines so that I can comment on them. It is very long with some useless crazy talk...I will just leave that out, cause how do you respond to cray talk?

"You keep saying that I'm not much of a mother... I could go on and on about how you were the sluttiest girl that I EVER KNEW"

What a nice thing for a mother to say. From what I hear the man that I thought was my father all these years wasn't. I remember sitting in a van outside this mans house for hours waiting for her when I was about 9, She meets guys off the internet and pretends she is me, by showing them my picture at age 20. She was seeing a woman for at least 5 years of her marriage. I found letters written by her that indicate that she is into bestiality. Who's a slut?

"WE don't have to contact you kellie... we don't have to borrow money from you. In fact YOU and your husband OWE me $1800 for a car i helped you buy but YOU never put that stuff in your blog."

Well, the $1800 was a two part thing. $1000 was a wedding gift and $800 was a loan that I paid off by watching her daycare kids, mind you I did not have a daycare license, but she was taking a week vacation and needed someone to watch her kids while she was away.

"IF you're not sick over one thing it's another. That is what everyone says. You're always in bed. And if i was such a bad mother why did you leave sierra with me until I introduced you to JEMAL? I was tired of you begging to go out on MY DATES!!! I did the best that anyone could have done with YOU! I Loved you"

I am sick a lot. The doctors are trying to figure out what is wrong with me. It looks like it could be many different things. If my mother would have ever taken me to a doctor when I was a kid (other then the times when it was for a settlement) Maybe I would have been in better health today. I didn't leave Sierra with her. She kept Sierra from me. She told me I would never be a good mother and that Sierra was better off there. If I did take her for a few days Norma would show up at the door to pick her up. She wouldn't let me keep any furniture at my place, even though I bought it. It wasn't Until I met my husband that he was able to walk past my mother take Sierra and the furniture and say that she wasn't coming back.

"You are so much like your dad thinking that you got to where you are today without any help from anyone. I guess you need to because it makes you feel human. I would tell you to get medical help but you seem to write that you are doing that constantly anyway."

Certainly my father wouldn't say that he got to where he is today without any help from my mother. He has spent more time in jail because of her than anyone else. I can give her some credit for who I am today, because I said when I was very young that I wanted to be the opposite of everything that she was. That made me who I am. I never spent anytime with my mother, I was either off taking care of my self (starting at age 14) in my own apartment or she was with her girlfriend taking vacations. And At least I seek help when I need it, not just so I can get free money. I could be on disability right now, but our household doesn't need the money, so I choose not to get it. My mother could work, but hasn't in the last, at least 4 years. She keeps being denied disability but tries again anyway.

"I am not stealing any money from anyone."

She has cell phones in a dead woman's name, She has been using credit cards in the same woman's name, she is waiting for an inheritance that she plans to steal half of by not telling the actual owner how much she is getting. That is stealing to me. I want no part of it.

"I am definitely going to talk to my mother about living there with you. I don't like it. I'm afraid that you will abuse her eventually. You throw tantrums and we don't know the full effect of all those drugs that you did for so many years while your daughter's milk rotted in the bottles and her diaper was so full of pee that it was falling apart on her. I remember her rump being blistered because you had not changed her diaper in what seemed like days. Me and Mom mom had to run her butt under water for hours and take turns patting her into a comfort zone because she was so raw from being neglected. NEGLECTED that's right. I still have the pictures Kellie. EVERYONE made me take the pictures so that if this day every came I could PROVE how YOU WERE THE EVIL NO CARING SELF RIGHTEOUS MOTHER that gave little care to her beautiful daughter."

Well, I talked to my grandmother. Since Norma threw her out 4 years ago she has been happier here than she ever was. She likes to do same of the work, I don't make her do anything. She says "It keeps me alive". She said she would never move out to Oklahoma with my mother, if she had to leave she would go to Florida with her sisters.

As far as the neglect is concerned there is a part of the story missing. My mother purposefully left those bottles and diapers around, in a house I was not living in and took photos of them. Sierra was in her care at the time because she would not let me keep her more than a few days, she wanted the child support check and was trying to get me to give up custody.

Oh the other hand Norma lost her daycare license for not feeding children, allowing a sex offender near the children, and she twice lost a child, because she was busy sitting at the computer chatting and playing MSN games. She lost her house that she mortgage who knows how many times, because I can only assume she got into drugs. She had drug dealers living in her house with her.

If anyone is EVIL it is my mother and everyone that meets her says so. She cares nothing for anyone but herself and money.

"By the way, Jason loves me. And Sierra Loves me. Jared loves me. Mom mom Loves me... I don't need you to love me Kellie. Do you understand that? YOU NEED ME TO LOVE YOU, because YOU are self centered beyond belief."

Well, Jayson only cares enough to get the money. He will play nice as long as he has too. Sierra and Jared don't even know her, they ask about their grandparents that live miles away before they talk about her. She never came to just visit them even when she lived just 10 miles away. She would see them once a month at the most when she was coming here to pick up some money from my grandmother. As for my grandmother, yeah she loves her, but she hates the things she does. Me, I could care less...someone call me and tell me when the funeral is, don't know if I would even go.

Self-Centered...adj : limited to or caring only about yourself and your own needs. Engrossed in oneself and one's own affairs; selfish

If that were the case I wouldn't spend so much damn time worrying about how to help other people. I wouldn't send money to my family when they ask for it. I would just ignore them when they call with problems. I would just forget them all together because they do nothing to help me. Instead, I give my time and money to people I know care nothing about my and my families well being.

There is a lot more but I think 20 minutes is all I have to spend on this. Maybe one day she will get the picture, she wasn't just not a good mother, she was a bad mother and still is. I don't want anything to do with her. I just want her out of my life and out of my kids lives for good. She has nothing that I want them to learn. Scamming the system is not a good trait to have. And the more times she says I am a bad mother I just laugh, because I know that I am doing so much better then my EXAMPLE did. I may not be perfect, but I am better. My kids are happy, they are feed, clothed, they play, they laugh, they aren't worried about the police coming to take daddy away because mommy got mad at him, there is no alcohol in this house, my kids get to be kids, they don't have to grow up at 9, They don't have to choose between mommy and daddy. I could go on but this is ridiculous.

I just talked to my brother, he says he is not a part of the WE that she speaks of in her comment. He said that she didn't even tell him what she wrote. He says that he disagrees with what she wrote, and that when he came home from work yesterday she started telling him that I was writing things about him on the web, bad things. We had cleared that part up last night, that's how I found this comment afterwords.

Apparently, Norma is worried that someone in my family might read this and she would get caught using the credit cards and stealing the money. I feel like emailing all of this to everyone in the family, but I'm not as evil as she is.