20 Reasons I am Happy to be Married
This is just a little post that may seem pretty corny to most of you but it is something that I think I need to say, something I want everyone to know. I really do love being married, it is so much better then when I was single.
- I am happy to be able to share all of my special moments with my very best friend, forever. Having your best friend share all of your favorite moments and to have a person that wants to be by your side as you discover the world is amazing. You always feel safe no matter where you are or what you are doing.
- It is much warmer in bed when there is someone to cuddle with, even though we have a king sized bed, I know he is there and sometimes when he is sleeping I will just touch his face with my hand and I smile.
- It is wonderful to have someone who knows me so well and doesn't use the things he knows to hurt me. So often in relationships once you share a secret with that other special person they will use it against you in every single fight you have, just to hurt you
- We never fight, we have disagreements, but we do not fight. We especially don't even disagree in front of the children. We discuss things like adults should and com to an agreement about what should be done or how something should be done. I really love our relationship for that reason
- I know he will always protect me and would never hurt me
- No matter how many problems we face, we always have each other and no matter what we can make thru, with each others help
- I feel safe getting his name tattooed on my arm because I know we will never leave each other.
- It is nice to know that even when I am at my lowest he can still see the light in me. Some how he can see something in me that I don't even know sometimes and it helps me to see these things in myself and in other people as well.
- No one is perfect but he is perfect for me. I know that no matter what may happen in the future we will always love each other and will always want to be together, and not just for the kids.
- When it comes to the kids he makes a great buddy and friend, he knows just what to do to make the kids smile. They both love and adore him, I can see why. he knows just when they need to be tickled and he knows when it's time to pick them up and throw them in the air.
- It is a wonderful feeling to know that there is always going to be someone there for you, holding you, letting you cry on their shoulders and to listen to you even when I am not making any sense to myself.
- I love that he doesn't expect me to change, and I don't expect him to either. We fell in love with each other this way and we understand that each of us has our faults. It's okay to get annoyed once in a while because of something the other person does. Just don't let it ruin a great relationship.
- No matter how sick I get or can't do something for on reason or another my husband is right there, no questions asked, he will do anything that needs to be done, I can't thank him enough for that
- My husband knows how to make me feel like the only women in the world. When we are out in public I never see his eyes stray off to the blondes walking by, instead he will smack my butt or put his arm around me. I really love him for that. My self-esteem isn't the greatest but he makes me feel wonderful
- I know that from now until the end of time he will never tell me what to do, he will only suggest what I should do and if I don't agree he just stays out of it, so that I learn my lesson because he is almost always right about certain things
- When we have days off he will go to Mcdonald's in the snow, rain, hail, whatever to get me my Egg McMuffin and hash browns at 9 in the morning, just to make me happy.
- I never have to worry about what I say, I can talk to him about anything. I love that I can talk to him about my problems and he doesn't just tune me out, he actually gives me his attention, unless f course we are watching something good on TV, but we have Tivo, so that helps, he can pause when I say something and continue watching when I am done talking.
- We share a lot of the same likes and dislikes, however there are things he likes that I don't and vice versa. This is a good thing because it gives us things to talk to each other about and it gives both of us some time apart (Absence makes the heart grow fonder), then when we are together doing something we both like it feels special, even if it is just watching TV.
- We learned very early in our relationship that even with a king size bed and a king sized blanket, we each needed our own. Both of us like to steal blankets, I however also steal pillows (he will never let me forget about that night). It is nice to have my own blanket at night, and I am sure he is happy to have his.
- Since we have been married and other then the nights he was away from home, we have never gone to bed with out giving each other a kiss and we have never gone to bed mad at each other either. No matter what has happened we fix it before we go to sleep. Nothing is that terrible that we should make the other one suffer all night for it.
So that is my list. I just wanted to share it with all of you. I think that Jemal and I have had a pretty wonderful relationship over the last 9 years. Sure, we got started dating pretty fast, moved in together fast, got married with 2 weeks notice and had a baby before our 1st anniversary, that doesn't mean anything though. We just knew what we wanted and we went for it.
I am so happy that we did, I am so happy that I felt so safe with him that I gave up what I had at the time, which wasn't much, and went off to live with him. I am very happy that things turned out the way that they did and that we are still just as happy and as comfortable as we always have been with each other.
I only wish that everyone else in the world could find their perfect match and live happily ever after like we are. I really got lucky meeting Jemal and bringing him into my life. He also took on the responsibility of being a step dad very quickly and at this point I think it is rude to think of him as a step-dad, he treats her like she is his own and she loves him like he is her dad. I really love that about him too.
Nothing will ever break us apart, even if the most horrible of things happens I know that I will still keep him as a friend and we joke all the time about how we would still have to live together to be with each other everyday. I am pretty sure that this would be the case. I could never take him out of my life or that of the kids. I always want to be with my best friend and I want him to always want to be with me too.
Comments
You forgot:
21. My husband is sooooooo hot.
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I love you too, sweetie!
Posted by: Jemaleddin
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February 26, 2007 02:03 PM
Yes, I do have a really sexy husband. It really makes it easy to love a man when he looks so damn good in boxer briefs.
Posted by: Freshcaffeine
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March 23, 2007 12:54 PM